Moments later I look up to see that Luke has now made it to the top but does not want to slide down the large tube slide into the ball pit and is instead standing behind the glass very calmly but CLEARLY asking for his mother. Being a wonderful friend Anastasia offered to go up instead of making me (with vertigo) attempt what looked like a pretty tremendous feat.. I should also mention that upon initially ascending the ladder Anastasia too found herself a bit nauseous. Just let the record show. Moments later I watched (but could not hear due to the blaring music) as Anastasia tried to talk my son off the ledge so to speak. He was calm, no tears, but very clear that the slide (an enclosed tube) was just too scary for him. She offered to put him on her lap or help him climb back down which he almost did but lost momentum due to the people coming up the ladder at the same time. I just can't resist the lovely shot of my dear friend trying to save me from having to go up the ladder and attempting to help Luke down.
Though she was quite good at talking with Luke..it was a job for MOM. I found myself bravely ascending the ladder and encouraging him to slide back down the slide (on my lap). We followed Anastasia who slid down herself while grasping the sides of the tunnel. Once down we all happily played in the ball pit. ALL of us. It was quite deep and I must say pretty relaxing.
Though Anastasia and I spent most of our time at the Coop discussing its misuse of space and how we would redesign it if we had the structure, our sons LOVED it. They found things to do and happily entertained themselves. Luke and Spencer particularly loved the costumes. And when it was time for snack they equally enjoyed a nice rest. All and all another fun outing. Luke has already asked to go back. Glad that he was not traumatized!! In fact he recounted the story of climbing up and finding it too scary NUMEROUS times. I feel happy that I have a child who can clearly express how he feels with out being panicked and is secure in his expression. Whew. Guess we are doing SOMETHING right.
Luke as Ladybug
Masterpiece Theatre!
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